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Dear Friend,
At
last, there is a road map and collection of resources you can access
from anywhere to guide you to freedom and victory in the battle with
sexual temptation.
This new program - 90 Days
to Sexual Sanity™ - will give you the
tools and support you need to begin a program of recovery. It
will also help you make a new start if your program is drifting.
Whether or not you view
your struggle as an addiction, you have likely felt the unusual power
and tenacity of sexual behaviors. You might be able to
stop
your behaviors for a while ... but you can't stay stopped! That's the
problem.
We need more than simplistic advice and exhortations to purity, which usually leave us with little guidance and a lot of
guilt.
90
Days to Sexual Sanity™ is a tested,
proven
program that works.
In the last four years,
hundreds of men have gone through this program, and experienced the
change of life that it offers. You can read some of their feedback
later in this report. Right now though, let's talk about what this
program involves.
90 Days to Sexual Sanity™ is a home study course
that combines printed teaching resources, recovery meditations, and
recorded audio seminars that help you not only learn about how recovery
happens, but actually help you take the steps you need in recovery.
Here are a few things you will
get
when you enroll in the
90
Days to Sexual Sanity™ program:
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- Each week you'll get an
email that includes (1)
printed materials for each day - called a "Daily Guide," and (2) an
audio resource - usually an hour-long seminar recorded live.
- You’ll get an article
every day in the "Daily Guide" that consists of teaching about an important aspect of
personal recovery and sexual health. This teaching part of the
program will help you learn what to focus on in your recovery. These
articles vary in length, but are usually several pages long.
- As a follow-up to the teaching, you’ll get a specific assignment - a
tangible action step - to complete each day that will help
you move forward in your recovery. These action steps are
designed to be accomplished in a few minutes’ time.
- You’ll get a meditation from one of the many excellent
meditation books published by Hazelden. The recovery meditation will be
specifically selected and targeted for its relevance to recovery from
sexual struggles.
- The daily guides are sent in a format that is optimized for easy
and convenient reading on your computer screen. However, you are also welcome to print them
(they are pdf files), and keep them in a notebook for reading away from
a computer.
- The focus of these daily
guides are to provide brief reminders
about the "how" and "why" of recovery, and to help participants
take some tangible action that moves them forward in recovery.
- The daily guides are based
on the philosophy that to make a lasting change in life - especially
when it comes to habitual / compulsive / addictive behavior - we need to do at least something every day to
remind us of our commitment, and move us further along in our task of
building a new life. The daily guides provide you the opportunity to do
just that.
- You will also get a new audio recording each week, with teaching
about some aspect of recovery from sexual compulsion. These
recordings come from hour-long seminars taught by Mark Brouwer.
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Audio seminars you'll
recieve as part of the
90 Days to Sexual Sanity™
home study program:
The audio recordings
are sent each week. They contain teaching for people in
recovery, and also are helpful for spouses of addicts. You are
encouraged to share them with family and friends. Here is a list of the programs you'll be receiving:
| Week one: |
"The power of personal environments in recovery" |
| Week two: |
"How to find a local
recovery group that works for you" |
| Week three: |
"The spiritual questions
and challenges of recovery" |
| Week four: |
"How churches help or hinder recovery from sexual issues" |
| Week five: |
"What spouses and parents need to know" |
| Week six: |
"Inteverview with Wendy Maltz, author of The Porn Trap" |
| Week seven: |
"What is relapse and how
to prevent it" |
| Week eight: |
"Experiencing healthy sex vs addictive sex" |
| Week nine: |
"How to prevent cross addictions" |
| Week ten: |
"Understanding your - and your spouse's - sexual blueprint" |
| Week eleven: |
"Accountability partners vs sponsors: who do you need?" |
| Week twelve: |
"Interview with Deb Laaser, author of Shattered Vows" |
| Week thirteen: |
"Recovery FAIL - things we do to mess up recovery" |
It might be helpful to see
what some of this material is like. So I'm going to give you a free sample of the materials in
the Daily Guide. Click here to
download a sample of the daily guide. The download will be in the
form of a "pdf" file, and contains the materials from day 78 in the
program.
Still not sure whether this
program
would be a good
investment?
Maybe it would be helpful to hear
from some of the people who've gone through it. At present, over
200 people have gone through the program. Because of the highly personal
nature of this program, we are obviously committed to maintaining their
confidentiality, so we can't use names.
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What people who have
gone through
the 90 Days to Sexual Sanity™ program
have
to say about it:
"The 90 Days to Sexual Sanity™ program was
exactly what I needed to continue my healing from sexual addiction.
The daily readings were excellent. Each day for 90 days, Mark Brouwer
provided thoughtful, practical (with a daily action step) advice on how
to grow in sexual sanity. This program has given me the tools and the new
mindset that I need to keep moving forward in my journey towards
healing. I would highly
recommend this program to anyone who is struggling with a sexual
addiction."
- participant
"The 90 Days to Sexual
Sanity™ program has been amazingly helpful in my recovery from sexual
addiction.
The daily reading material provides excellent wisdom and new ideas that
are helpful. The daily “Next Step” exercises are very important to
complete and provide an insightful reminder to practice sexual sobriety
on a daily basis. The exercises help me
to take the ideas out of my head and put them into practice in my life,
which was lacking before I gave myself to this program. "
- participant
"In this program,
Mark demonstrates his care for me and my recovery. He expresses genuine love for people in this
struggle and provides helpful assistance that is not judgmental but
loving. His wisdom and encouragement have been an enormous aid in
my recovery."
- participant
"The 90 Days to Sexual Sanity™ program has
been invaluable to me. Although I still struggle with this issue,
the program has kept me on a relatively steady path. In other words, without this, who knows where I’d be!"
- participant
"A big THANK YOU for developing the 90 Day
Program. Without this daily recovery tool and the coaching, I
would never have been able to keep my recovery program on track.
Needless to say, it was well worth the
investment! Again, thanks ever so much."
- participant
"As the wife of a sexual struggler, I am so
thankful for the 90 Days to Sexual Sanity™ program! Thank you for
this service and ministry!!!"
- participant’s spouse
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The cost for the 90 Days to
Sexual Sanity™ program is $147.
This is less than the cost of a single-hour therapy session at our
counseling center. Remember, this program includes daily guides for
each of the 90 days, and an hour-long audio seminar to listen to each
week. When you buy this program, you will receive a follow-up email
that includes the materials for your first week, and your first audio
seminar ... so you can get started right away.
$$$ 147.00 $$$
$$$ 147.00 $$$
At this point, you might be wondering:
- Who created this program?
- What are his credentials?
- Why should I trust him to provide the expert guidance I
need to deal with this issue?
 My name is Mark Brouwer,
and after serving as the founding and senior pastor of two churches
over the course of 15 years, I shifted the focus of my efforts in 2006
to work full-time helping people find
recovery from sexual struggles.
I am the graduate of Concordia College, Calvin Theological Seminary,
and Coach University (where I got training in life and leadership
coaching).
I have worked since 2006
with Mark Laaser at Faithful and True Ministries, who is one of the
leaders in the sex addiction field. I
coordinate training events, speak and lead groups at men's workshops,
and oversee the followup (or "aftercare") program
for Faithful and True. I also speak to church and community groups, as
well as colleges, seminaries, and missionary training schools, about
healthy sexuality and recovery issues.
I am the editor of one of the leading blogs in the sexual
recovery field: www.sexualsanity.com.
I am contributing author of "A
Christian Handbook of Abuse, Addiction, and Difficult Issues,"
and coauthor of "Sexual Addiction and
Internet Pornography" from Kevin Mayhew Publishing.
I
have been in recovery from sexual struggles myself, and have been
married for 23 years to my wife Charlene. We live in Savage, Minnesota,
and have two teenage sons.
You might think that,
given my background in church ministry, that the materials and focus of
this program would be something like a glorified Bible study. If that's
what you're looking for here, you will be disappointed.
I believe that it is God who
heals us,
but that healing does not happen in the way
it's often portrayed in church settings -
where the struggler remains isolated
in secrecy and passivity while God
mysteriously takes the problem away.
What has helped me - and what you will find in the 90 Days to Sexual
Sanity™ program - has been applying the
insights of recovery to sexual struggles. Even
though there are ways in which chemical and sex addiction differ, and
the struggles many of us face might not be full-blown addictions, there
are life-changing principles we can take from recovery wisdom and apply
to this area of life.
Recovery from sexual
struggles is a partnership - God works in our lives, but we also
have an important role to play. Recovery
from sexual struggles is also a journey of emotional and spiritual
healing.
It's not an issue of being bad people who need to try harder to stop
being bad. The 90 Days to Sexual Sanity™ program will help you clarify
what your role is, and provide a roadmap to follow.
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But don't take my word for it!
Here is what some other leaders
who know me and have heard
my teaching about recovery
are saying about me:
"I
have known Mark Brouwer for a number of years and have watched his wise
teaching grow over time. He is providing very valuable resources to
many men around the country. I am pleased to recommend his teaching to
you."
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Dr Mark Laaser, Director of
Faithful and True Ministries, and author of numerous books on sexual
addiction and marriage restoration |
"Mark
Brouwer has been my colleague in pastoral ministry and is my
friend. Now he is based just down the street from where I live
and work even though he counsels and teaches people across the
nation. Mark is a person of integrity and courage who not only
faced his own personal challenges but brings his experiences and
professional expertise to compassionately and effectively help others."
- Dr Leith Anderson,
president of National Association of Evangelicals, pastor of Wooddale
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"What
a tremendous resource for Pastors you are! I want to thank you and your
wife for leading our annual retreat. It was great! Your teaching was a
great warning, particularly for those who are dabbling with or becoming
addicted to not only pornography, but to other addictions as well. I
have received responses from a few of our attendees and they all felt
the meetings were very worthwhile. Thanks for your work and ministry."
- Rev. Frank Pott, Regional Pastor
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"Thank
you for your openness, wisdom, and honesty. I think you could tell from
the attentiveness of the students and the many questions they asked
that what you said really hit home for them. I hope to have you back
for future classes at the seminary."
- Dr. Bob Albers, professor at
Luther Theological Seminary |
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I hope you take
the opportunity to make a new start in your life, using this 90 Days to
Sexual Sanity™ program. You can sign up here:
$$$ 147.00 $$$
$$$ 147.00 $$$
Would you be interested in a group discount? Contact me via email if
you want to find out about a way of getting substantial savings if a
group of people agree to purchase and work through the materials. Email
me for more information at:
mark(at)recoveryremixed(dot)com
Mark Brouwer
Director - Recovery Remixed, Inc.
Recovery Remixed,
Inc.
15798 Venture Lane
Eden Prairie, MN 55378
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